Went through the same awakening several years back. My siren called out to me from the mid-80's when I 'd heard my good friends system consisting of a pair of vintage Quad speakers, a rebuilt Dynaco amp, and a Audible Illusions pre. I still remember getting lost, basking in the comfort of the warmth and presence of the music at his house. They always had to drag me out of there pleading ".....just one more record...please, play just one more!". When it finally hit me over the head that tubes really aren't that difficult or expensive to own and maintain, I went out and bought a competing Chinese-built integrated, a Jolida 302B. WHY DIDN'T I DO THIS LONG AGO?!?! You've put the rest far to eloquently for me to rain on your parade so I'll just refer anyone to go back and reread your post. Now I'm way into tubes. Both my systems (home and work) are tube-based. Even tried a few SS wannabes (those that "sound very tube-like"). Don't just take my word for it, try it yourself: If you like the illusion of three dimensional presence and spacial representation, there is nothing like a thoughtfully assembled tube system. If you prefer slam and sound-pressure levels, and that more 'physical' illusion of the presence of music (like a photograph...well said), then SS is your magic carpet. In the recent issue of TAS there is a great discussion on the merits of tubes vs. solid state. In that discussion, Jonathan Valin states, "Solid-state is like a slide show. A really good, well-focused slide show. Tubes are more like looking at a satue garden."
Needless to say, I prefer the sound and illusion of tubes, but do appreciate SS for what it can bring to the experience. I tire easily from listening to SS though, and find it easy to walk away from. To each their own. Mine is tubes.
Thanks for the well written post!
Marco