I do know and understand that stuff, pretty much like the back of my hand. Absolutely right, subwoofers should be put to work on long wavelengths, which often will be longer than the listening room. They will excite room resonances and one benefit of having multiple subs is that they average out these resonances a bit.
Now are you saying that the longest distance between any two of your subs is four feet? I am particularly familiar with the Duntech Sovereign where the blurb says it is "acknowledged by experts as the finest speaker in the world, certainly the most accurate". Each speaker has seven drivers in a floor to ceiling D'Appolito arrangement, which puts 12" bass drivers near the floor and ceiling. Base is quoted as down to 27-Hz within 2-dB. A huge amount of effort was put into time aligning the seven drivers so if you sat at the right ear height, phase differences were less than 25 degrees.
Because time alignment is so important, vertical listening position was crucial. Slowly lower yourself and suddenly a huge image came into focus. A few inches more and it was gone. That was in a very large demonstration room where wall reflections mattered less than usual. I've mentioned before that the reference used when designing these speakers was the Quad ESL-63.
Yep, the wavelengths tweeters should handle make it unwise to use more than one (why does Infinity spring to mind here?). Tweeters can be made coincident (concentric) with mid-range drivers, as was done by Tannoy and is now brilliantly executed by KEF. I have not heard the Tannoy re-incarnation by Fyne.