I've never run across one with a mono stereo switch, lots out there with a selector switch and volume of course.
You may have better luck having one made, as its just a volume pot and a switch.
Decware probably could make one for you out of thier passive preamp.
NVA out of the UK also. all their preamps are passive.
lots of companies out there making passive preamps i'm sure one would add a switch for mono/stereo if you ask. may want to look local for a tech who can make a passive preamp, bassicaly a volume pot in a box with a couple RCA's and a switch to add the two signals together for mono.