Judit,
You should continue to buy used or internet only, and stick to advice and information from internet forums. This is your choice. The serious contradiction is when you try to use a dealer's knowledge and facilities for auditioning, then go elsewhere to buy cheaper.
As long as you are fine with the downsides of the internet, go for it; just act ethically relative to dealers. I can't blame any dealer for acting contemptuous after you spend time listening and then go into a bidding game. You are listening to a piece of equipment that the dealer had to purchase; it isn't on consignment from the manufacturer. Usually the MSRP is determined by the manufacturer as the fair value of his time and labor, plus sales costs (i.e. dealer costs).
You should continue to buy used or internet only, and stick to advice and information from internet forums. This is your choice. The serious contradiction is when you try to use a dealer's knowledge and facilities for auditioning, then go elsewhere to buy cheaper.
As long as you are fine with the downsides of the internet, go for it; just act ethically relative to dealers. I can't blame any dealer for acting contemptuous after you spend time listening and then go into a bidding game. You are listening to a piece of equipment that the dealer had to purchase; it isn't on consignment from the manufacturer. Usually the MSRP is determined by the manufacturer as the fair value of his time and labor, plus sales costs (i.e. dealer costs).