you will hear more of the music if you get the bass right (even if it is not as impressive) because too much bass will mask higher frequencies such as the lower midrange and prevent you from maximizing the musical enjoyment.Shadorne makes an excellent point. Boom always mucks up the midbass and midrange. When you get the bass right, you'll be amazed how realistic the midrange sounds. It should be balanced, natural and enjoyable. Are you doing any room treatment other than your furniture and drapes? If you aren't, I recommend searching the forums for suggestions. There's a lot of good info in there.
Shadorne (System | Reviews | Threads | Answers)
By the way, a great way to get a reference for how things should sound is to use headphones. Every audiophile should have a pair for this purpose. Best of luck on your quest! Mark