Mjmch, are you running through a high-pass crossover to main speakers and a low-pass crossover to sub, or are you instead letting the main speakers run full range and connecting the sub via line-level or speaker-level inputs from preamp or amp? These are two very different approaches. If taking the latter approach, you are only adjusting HF roll-off of sub, and would therefore want to do so at a frequency at or beneath the useful bass output of your mains.