Tim, the best way to get "plugged in" to the local audiophile group is to get your e-mail address onto one of the mailing lists that are used to send invitations for the local gatherings. Two of the members here have been keeping mailing lists: Alexc and Reubent. I believe Alex's mailing list is gradually becoming the "master," but, to be safe, you might want to send PMs to both Alex (Alexc) and Tom (Reubent) to ask that they put your name and e-mail address on their lists.
You'll also want to keep an eye on this thread to look for an announcement of the next gathering of the large local group. Those gatherings have been happening about two or three times per year. (The last one was held about two weeks ago.) There are smaller groups of us who also get together much more frequently for casual listening, but you will have a chance to meet 20 or more of the local guys if you can make it to one of the larger gatherings.
Welcome, and we look forward to seeing you in person at the next meeting of "the club."