If you could figure out the hum issue with the A3.5, that would be, imho, the cleanest solution.
I also have an Oppo player: hdmi connected to my AVR, and L&R analog outputs connected to my Musical Fidelity A5 int amp for CD inputs.
HDMI w/ AVR selected for movies: the A5 amps my front speakers and the sub is controlled from the AVR. For music, AVR is off, Oppo drives the A5 CD input, A5 preouts drive the sub for clean rocking music goodness.
If you'd like to see diagrams I've done up that show the connections in my system, I can post links here.
It all works slick and clean, no cable swapping, no switch boxes, no hum.