I don't know where to begin. If VE says that the OEM FR64S + its OEM headshell have together an effective mass of 35g, that's a good place to start. Then you have to add the weight of the cartridge and the screws and nuts used to hold the cartridge in place. But you'd like to know the weight of the OEM headshell separately, so as to be able to compare it to the weight of the Orsonic, like Raul says. And even then, the change in EM is not the same as the difference in static weight of the two objects. (I don't know what a Decca pod is. Perhaps it's something that goes between the headshell and the cartridge. If so, the pod plus Orsonic might be close to the same weight as the OEM FR headshell. The difference would be negligible, IMO.) If it sounds good, especially in the low bass region, it probably IS good. If the calculated resonant frequency is 7.5Hz, that is not so bad either. You might look here for some help:
http://www.resfreq.com/resonancecalculator.html