Thanks for the well written and insightful listening impression post.
+1 your comments regarding the SR Black fuses.
I participated in a comparison between the Coincident, Cardas Clear and Siltech ICs. The Coincident were neutral and open/transparent and I didn't detect edginess. I did obtain the Ocellia Silver Reference cables and preferred them to the very good Coincident. I found the Ocellia more naturally musical, organic and fuller bodied. So I know where you are coming from.
I got mine used about 4 years ago, as you note they've become more expensive recently. Based on your listening it seems no doubt that the CT Graphene are excellent cables and a very exceptional value. I believe that you made the right decision when all factors are considered. Your system must sound wonderful.
Charles,