connecting a sub to a 2-channel system


My sister is coming for a visit. she is a budding audiophile and we will be having a listening session in front of my 2-channel rig. She is still very much a bass-head, and I want to hook my HSU VTF MkII sub into my 2-channel system, so I can show her what it sounds like with and without the big-booty-bass. My question is this: how to best hook the sub into the 2-channel system? My current thinking is to use a Y-adapter on a single channel coming out of either the pre or the DAC, then use the Audioquest sub-x cable to the HSU's LFE input. one channel from the DAC would be fixed, using a single channel from the pre would be variable. Thoughts? Thanks in advance. Keep in mind this is not a permanent addition...!
realremo
Further listening proves that I have to turn the volume up louder with the sub connected to get to the same SPLs I was getting in pure two-channel. I have a decibel meter and mild tinnitis, so I watch this kind of thing pretty carefully.
The loading presented by the sub to the power amplifier is not the reason. To prove that, see what happens when the sub is connected but its volume setting is turned all the way down.

What you are perceiving could be the result of a phasing problem, perhaps in combination with too high a crossover frequency, or a placement problem, or a room reflection issue. Given that the sub only provides two possible phase settings (0 and 180 degrees), and you've probably already tried both, my guess is that it's a placement issue, which at some frequencies in the bass region is resulting in the output of the sub arriving at the listening position with improper phasing relative to the same frequencies arriving from the Quads, for both settings of the phase switch.

Best regards,
-- Al
I'll try it tomorrow night with the sub turned off, see if that restores the Quads' ruler-flat mid-range. I feel like I am missing some detail in the mids, like the sub is covering it up or something. This is only temporary anyway, I miss the sub in my home theater too much! Funny how I used to crave bass when I first got into this hobby, now I just...don't!
I think I know what was wrong, crossover was not set correctly, now the sub and speakers overlap pretty seamlessly. Thanks all.
OK now that my sister has left, her visit ended, I returned the sub to the home theater system for our viewing of "snow white and the huntsman." I listened to my 2-channel system for about 2 hours last night and I think I miss the sub. It added some weight and presence to the music. Another thing: I use a computer desk in my listening room to work from home, I just move it out when people come in for a listen. I had to move it back in last night. There is a large 24" monitor that sits on this desk, and I think it really kills the imaging! Grr!