Suggestions for electronics for new HT system


I have been gradually gathering my speakers for my new HT room in new house and now am desiring recommendations for electronics. I will be using B&W 802s as two fronts and HTM1 for center. The B&W 805s will be side and SCMs two rears. I am going to purchase a DD18 Velodyne as a sub. I would like suggestions for a good match with these speakers for dvd, cd, amp, pre-amp sound processor etc... I also would like suggestions in regard to projector dlp vs. lcd. Would appreciate any advice and would like to spend around 10k for the rest of the system. Thanks
ghaas
Used- Anthem AVM 30 Pre-pro $2500.
Used- Mac 402's on the 802's $3100
Used- Mac 7104 biamp two channels for the HTM 1 and the other two channels for the 805's $1500
Used- any decent 2 channel 150 watt NAD- $300 for the SCM's
Used Esoteric DV50 DVD/SACD- $2,500
And you have a whole $100 left over for cables.
Superb recommendation by Lokie, but I'd find a few extra ($1,000?) for cables.