"Mattybumpkin":
If your friend is ready to buy an all out home theater system for around $1,500.00 to $2,000.00, and if this is for a female, then I would go along with "Elevick" on the fact that the Receiver and the DVD Player must be from the same brand, so that the Receiver's remote control can control both, the Receiver itself and the DVD Player when she wants to look at a movie, otherwise, she can still use the remotes that independently came with the components when she wants to look at a movie without surround sound, or if she wants to listen to music when she doesn't want to look at a movie. I have always been against "HTiB" systems in the past, and I don't feel compelled to recommend one now. But the system(s) I'm about to recommend below probably would be one that I would PROBABLY put together for a friend or relative who isn't as knowledgable about audio and home theater gear as I am, and those would be systems I would not buy for myself. But nonetheless, these systems are affordable and decent. But definitely, I wouldn't buy neither of these systems for myself. So then, without further ado......... here we go.........
If I am shopping at Best Buy, then this is what I would buy:
(01). Speaker System -- Klipsch Quintet III + Klipsch SUB-10 -- $500.00 (Klipsch Quintet III) + $408.00 (Klipsch SUB-10) = $908.00
(02). Audio/Video Receiver -- Yamaha HTR-5830SL -- $200.00
(03). DVD Player -- Yamaha DVS-5750 -- $153.00
For a total of $1,261.00, and with the difference left over, your friend can opt for some inexpensive, but decent interconnects and speaker cables that can smooth out the potentially bright high-end this system may deliver, but can keep the midrange intact for the "all too important" dialog.
And if I am shopping at Circuit City, then this I what I would buy:
(01). Speaker System -- Polk RM6750BK (Complete Speaker System......... Includes Subwoofer........ Nothing extra to buy) -- $500.00 (provides decent sound for the money)
(02). Audio/Video Receiver -- Sony STR-DE698 -- $300.00
(03). DVD Player -- Sony DVP-NS50PS -- $80.00
For a total of $880.00, and with the HUGE difference left over, opt for some cables that will make the system sound respectable, and then maybe your friend can throw in some stands and some DVD's for good measure.
Good Luck and Happy Shopping (to you and your friend)
--Charles--
P.S.: Also...... Happy Holidays