Jerry - that's good to hear. Your wife sounds like a good one too. Patience and understanding in a marriage are rare, one thing I love about the people on here is they recognize that. I've been on far too many forums where there's plenty of denigration of spouses who get in the way of the hobby. That's the wrong perspective.
As for the porn, I'm not worried about that, but we did talk about the difference between 'healthy' porn, where it looks like everyone is enjoying themselves, are not drugged and have real bodies, vs the rest. The racist stuff comes from us living in a bubble here in NW Arkansas, where he doesn't see its consequences. So he thinks it's absurd and funny. Now I've got him reading Roots. That should help bring some perspective..
@atmasphere I think I tried different sources, but now I can't remember. I'll try again after I put the amp back together. Thanks for the insights!
As for the porn, I'm not worried about that, but we did talk about the difference between 'healthy' porn, where it looks like everyone is enjoying themselves, are not drugged and have real bodies, vs the rest. The racist stuff comes from us living in a bubble here in NW Arkansas, where he doesn't see its consequences. So he thinks it's absurd and funny. Now I've got him reading Roots. That should help bring some perspective..
@atmasphere I think I tried different sources, but now I can't remember. I'll try again after I put the amp back together. Thanks for the insights!