@handymann I understand that part (what you described in your response) and that you are being reflective...what I am curious about are the threads that "suggest [you are] not a music lover"
From what you have shared in your OP and response, you come across as someone who loves and enjoys music (to me).
The title of your post and your question, however, points to caring about the 'tag' "what are we to be referred to as? It’s not that I really care what tag is pinned on me"
Perhaps you can share more. Writing things out helps me better understand myself when I'm stalled or wrestling with self-clarity.
From what you have shared in your OP and response, you come across as someone who loves and enjoys music (to me).
The title of your post and your question, however, points to caring about the 'tag' "what are we to be referred to as? It’s not that I really care what tag is pinned on me"
Perhaps you can share more. Writing things out helps me better understand myself when I'm stalled or wrestling with self-clarity.