subwoofer 19 by 18 room


I am building a 5.1 home theatre
have an Arcam 350 on the way and am using B&W Matrix twos, center and 301's in the rear

I've a bit stumped on subwoofer
everything I demo is too loud, rolled wrong and it sounds like a booming box

Definitive, B&W, Martin Logan didn't excite me
Paradign sounded okay, heard stay away from Velodyne (but I was impressed with them 20 years ago)

any suggestions for a single unit subwoofer?
probably need some eq in my near square room

I may even have Jim Salk build me something

ps I have a two channel room where I do my serious listening to music
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Have you looked into REL and JL Audio subwoofers? They have won 2006 and 2007 TAS subwoofer of the year awards. My suggestion is the Rel Britannia B2, very musical and integrate really well. Disappears in my room and sounds un-box like. Read the TAS review on the B3.
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Are you a DIY'er? I made my first infinite baffle subwoofer about two years ago, due to what people were saying concerning the QUALITY of the bass. The bass is EVERYTHING you could wish for!!! (and then some)
It is very "different" than bass from a box.

Here is a link to wet your appetite. Be sure to read at the bottom of the page concerning the "quality".

http://white.hometheatertalk.com/tips/ib.htm

Do a search on Google for "infinite baffle subwoofer"
Try a sub from Genesis Advanced Technologies. The G928 is awesome. Price is a little high but well worth it. If you are on a budget, try a Z Sub from BG. Best sub I have heard under $1200. Fills the room, without a boomy box feel. It has 2 10" drivers, fast enough for music, and powerful enough for good movie watching.
thanks for all the insights

I talked to a friend who does home theatre and he says the JL Audio has been a dream sub to put in a system

looks like I'm leaning that way

two F110's or 1 F113?