Help please

I can put the speakers a foot apart from each other and hear it plane as day. Now I know my room is far from perfect but this is very noticeable. I have switched cables and it will follow somewhat, but i have two of everything and its always exactly the same. I wish i was kidding.

I need a fresh set of ears, that's one reason i started this post .

Take your whole system to a friend's house.  Hook it up and see what happens.  Have that friend listen too...

So wait, if you swap the speaker location, the problem follows the speaker, or the problem stays in place?

Hearing tests are good too! One thing that goes on with me is I get far too much wax buildup, quickly. I have to rigorously use a body wash and rinse my ears out or within a couple of days my system’s channel balance starts to shift.  My right ear seems to produce more wax than my left, but this may have to do with sleeping positions.

Please describe your system in exact detail I am sorry you're just not making much sense. "i have switched cables and it will follow somewhat but I have two of everything" is very unclear. Be more precise and methodical describing your components and we may be able to help you more.