WHY DO SOME AUDIOPHILES THINK YOU ARE BRAGGING WHEN YOU ARE SHARING?


I have seen many people share what they have and what they have heard on audiogon and there are always a few people that come on with negative comments about the person bragging or,the put down the higher end gear that one is speaking about.  Why do you think that happens?
calvinj
"...now, get off the freeway, peasants! Her Highness is coming..." *smirk*

Thanks. 'lizbeth....I think....*LOL*

MHO, so far this has been the most 'restrained' and basically civil discussion on the subject at hand I've witnessed at AG.  And thanks to y'all for striving to maintain that.  We've all witnessed wayyy too many 'cat fights' over 'detail X' or 'item Y' that begin to remind one of Russian dashcam vids....*cringe* ;)

I was once queried as to when a 'pleasant diversion' (once referred to as one's hobby, or the like...) begins to take on the aspects of a 'pursuit' that has all the markings of an obsession....for those of you that recognize me as one that has a 'marked tendency' towards one 'W item', this may be applicable, but that's for another forum(s)....*S*

Most of the time, mine and yours, I 'lurk', hoping to glean the 'wheat' of a thread, and ignore/laugh/be mystified by the 'proceedings'.  Occasionally, I hope to make an 'intelligent observation (and/or) comment'.

Some are...some aren't.  Oh, well.  Nobody Knows Everything, and Nobody's Flawless.  I'll apologize Now for the latter circumstances.  

I'll sometimes insert a wisecrack (see above) that strikes me as appropo.
If you can't laugh at those arguing over details that neither can witness IRL at the other's space with their equipment with the same source material....then I'm not surprised by the current political/social climate, and I wish our species and planet luck.

We'll need it.

(Back to the irregularly timed program....*fade to gray*....)
Some products are an inherent brag even if the owner says nothing (a rare occurrence).  Drive a Viper, wear a gold Rolex, own the latest silly priced amplifier, and its existence is an implied brag.

There are people that own the same products because they are interested in them and happen to be able to afford them, not because of what they represent (conspicuous consumption), and they sometimes get caught in the assumption that they own them for the usual reasons. They'll be accused of bragging even when they are not.   Not fair, but then it is hard to distinguish between the types sometimes. 

Audio is similar to cars etc. in one way - if the person owns brand new gear it is more likely to be a brag, mentioning it, than if they own what was top of the line gear from twenty years ago - then they are just a canny shopper!
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Roxy. If you think the thread is useless or you want me to drop it. I got a better idea why don’t you drop out the thread instead. My questions or threads are not for you to like or approve of. Of course roxy you could stay if you like. But if you don’t i don’t think you will be missed! Carry on!