As a safer alternative, maybe look at steel or brass shot. Go to the Starsound website and look at their microbearing steel that you can purchase, or maybe go to a blasting supply for steel shot of various sizes. However, I believe the brass shot or beads are quite expensive.
Lead is known to be a poison and very dangerous because of what it does to your body and how it can rapidly accumulate and take a very long time to leave the body. It is especially hazardous to developing children.
If I were going to use lead, it would only be on a permanent installation, and not for stands that are going to be periodically taken apart or have the filling removed. I would fill the stands outside of my house and only use it in stands where the cavity filled with lead is air tight and able to be sealed, like on my sound anchor stands. I would wear gloves and an appropriate respiratory apparatus. Here is what I found posted by OSHA in response to a question about handling lead buckshot.
US Department of Labor - OSHA
You have questions regarding the handling of lead, which you described as lead balls or buckshot. We apologize for this delay in providing you with a response.
The OSHA standard which regulates exposure to lead in general industry is 29 CFR 1910.1025. This standard requires that employers ensure that the airborne levels of lead remain below the permissible exposure limit (PEL) of 50 µg/m3 as averaged over an time period. Lead becomes airborne when it is heated or abraded. It is unlikely that solid lead buckshot would produce an airborne-exposure level above the PEL or the action level of 30 µg/m3. However, it is advisable to wear gloves while handling the lead shot and to always wash your hands before eating, drinking, or smoking.