Maybe a sports team would make a better analogy.
Yes, there are people who buy a sports team as a vanity project. Hell they may not even care about the sport at all, but they need to be part of that exclusive club.
That doesn't mean that the person who has been following the team for 20 years is any less a fan. In fact, he/she may be a better fan and know more about the game, the team, and the play than any of the owners.
I am going to beat this story to death, but having watched a guy go into a store, listen to a badly set up pair of speakers (mismatched polarity, and juiced crossover settings) and go "How much are they? i like them, i take them." proves to me that you can buy the gear, but only love and experience makes you an audiophile.