@almarg Great to hear. I certainly want to avoid any issues. I *assume* that if I start to hear a hum that I’ll just disconnect the setup. I asked QS in several emails about grounding to preamp chassis and that suggestion wasn’t even taken up in the (very sparse) replies.
@daveyf Is that set up the one suggested by REL?
Not for monoblocks. If you look back at some of the REL links people shared above, you’ll see that REL suggests NOT connecting the sub's high level connector to monoblocks. They recommend using the "low-level" input. My problem (as described above) is that my preamp output is stereo and the REL I own only has a single RCA input.
My sense is that the advice they’re giving here is somewhat inexpert and/or poorly researched. I am not confident that my question got to someone with sufficient knowledge and/or they didn’t really stop and think hard about the question. Their suggestion of a Y cable would (as QS, almarg, told me) collapse the stereo field for the main speakers. While I sympathize with REL’s predicament of having many customers with a wide variety of products, it would be better to say "we’re working on your question" than to give erroneous advice.
I used that exact set up on my prior ARC stereo tube amp, and it worked fine. I also use that basic set up on my ss balanced stereo amp.
I’m assuming by "same set up" you’re saying that you used the high level REL connector. The issues raised by my situation are critically different, insofar as they pertain to grounding the subwoofer’s connection on two separate monoblocks.