I've owned Dynaudio Focus 220 II, Audience 70's, Audience 42's, and Confidence C1's. The only Totem I've own was the Model One Sig monitor. I have heard the Winds though powered by Mac 501's. Both lines are very good, although I would give a slight edge Dynaudio, mainly because they manufacture their own drivers and Mick (customer care) is a pleasure to deal with. The Totems are a little more polite IMO, while the Danes, although warm, are extremely detailed. I did audition the Focus 140 in my home once. Just remember with either of these, a good quality source and amplification is key and neither should let you down.
But just to counter someone else's post... Totems DO NOT use Dynaudio drivers. They look very similar and sound great, but they are a knock off.