She asked me why it wouldn’t be ok and I started babbling that the signal from one amp would then travel through the other set of connected cables into the amp that was not in use. Even if the other amp was off that could be problematic. If the other amp happened to be on then it could prove catastrophic for both amps and potentially cause an electrical fire.
What is the correct answer fellow audiogon members? Ralph?
The correct answer to your wife’s question is of course:
"Good question, honey. Now all I need is a new set of cables...!"