I think there's something to be said for Bjesien's concern about youngins and stand-mounted speakers.
One way to get a less looming physical presence would be a near-wall floorstander, like North Creek's Big Kat, which is a slender box that can go very close to walls (around 4k with lovely custom boxes, and an afternoon of easy DIY). I have the Kat's little brother, the Eska, and it is very unobtrusive and decor friendly, as well as sounding lovely. I'd expect the Big Kat, which I've not heard, to easily compete with the Nines, and to have some of what you like in the them. They are claimed to dare well with tubes.
One way to get a less looming physical presence would be a near-wall floorstander, like North Creek's Big Kat, which is a slender box that can go very close to walls (around 4k with lovely custom boxes, and an afternoon of easy DIY). I have the Kat's little brother, the Eska, and it is very unobtrusive and decor friendly, as well as sounding lovely. I'd expect the Big Kat, which I've not heard, to easily compete with the Nines, and to have some of what you like in the them. They are claimed to dare well with tubes.