Are all Audiophiles masocists?


My wife says my main hobby is collecting hobbies. She has a corollary to that realization which is, that I also tend to pick hobbies that I will never be happy with no matter how much I spend or how good I get at them. As an Audiophile she states my system is never good enough. I'm always upgrading. I believe we call that "Chasing the Dragon" if I'm not mistaken. She also says the same about several other of my hobbies such as... Golf (unlikely I'll ever shoot an 18), Cycling (a 4.5 hour century ride isn't fast enough), Drag Racing (Car runs mid 8's at 160mph in the 1/4 mile. Upgrades continue!) and there are others. So you get my drift.Is this just me or does the personality of the audiophile make us all just a bit masochistic?
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bullitt5094, those are sports not hobbies but they take up time just the same. Sometimes I think audio is a sport as it does seem at times we are competing with each other. It is that competitive streak that runs in us that is the problem. We can't just enjoy the ride. We have to get there first. 
I think just like vanity your competitive instinct gets whittled way until you lose it completely, just an effect of aging. I cycle with my wife and we do some very challenging rides like the Mortirolo and Stelvio passes. Just getting to the top is a victory. Nobody is racing. I love woodworking. The drive is to do things better and conquer difficult constructs. 
I have noticed that audiophiles tend to be very active, involved people. Perhaps we are using music as our tranquilizer of choice, our way of putting on the brakes or keeping us grounded. We know for a fact that people who listen to music daily live longer. This is an interesting association. Is it just the music or the fact that many of us also are very active, or that as a group our diets are better? Are we better educated? Perhaps it is all of these. Are we intentionally trying to hurt ourselves?
I do not think so. Some of us just like "better." Some of us are trying to one up the other guy. Most of us love music. The only time I hurt myself is when I get burned by the soldering iron and trust me on this one, I do not do it intentionally:)  
You still have woodworking, photography, and boating to try! Lots of rabbit holes to go down with all of those! :-D