I’m a musician (trumpet) who plays in an orchestra (well, not at the moment actually - sniff!).
I too struggled with building a sound system that could handle the challenges of classical music.
I didn’t achieve that until two things happened:
1. I acquired a pair of hybrid electrostatics (Martin Logan Spires), and
2. I powered them with 600W monoblocks (70’s era Soundcraftsmen)
I should add that I rarely listen to anything beyond the first two notches on the preamp's volume dial.
Classical music has to be one of the most challenging genres of music for any system to reproduce. Therefore, if it wasn’t recorded well from the start, no system will be able to make up for that. I look for recordings by Telarc, RCA Living Stereo, Decca, Deutsche Grammophon and Sony. I am rarely, if ever, disappointed in their recordings (the conductor maybe, the recording - no).
And I disagree with those who claim that *any* speaker can faithfully reproduce classical music recordings. That has not been my experience.
YMMV.