I'm convinced that our sense of aesthetics in music is dependent to a degree on who our ancestors were 200 years ago maybe, and for many of us that's unknown, but known or unknown, you still have those genes.
When I was child, my parents took me to the museum; I looked at a painting and asked them when did we go there. It was a painting of a castle on a lake in Switzerland.
They looked at me strangely and explained we had never been there. The more I looked at this painting, the more I was certain that I had been there. The older I got, the more that memory faded, but I still felt that I had been someplace that looked identical to that painting.
I'm saying that you are born with memories of places that you have never been before. If that's so, it also means that you are also born with your ancestors sense of aesthetics in music. Of course there are also a multitude of sociological factors that determine our taste in music.
The bottom line is that it is foolish for one man to argue with another man in regard to his sense of aesthetics in music.