bigkidz
When we started, I was politely introduced to marketing - the reviews are not free. It is very political also.You were introduced to the wrong people. Legitimate audio magazines and websites don't charge for a review other than requiring the temporary loan of a product sample. Politics are everywhere in life, so it doesn't make much sense to single the audio world out for that.
Many of the products today are distributed by brick & mortar dealers. Many brands have protected territories like Vandersteen, B&W, etc.As well it should be, imo.
It is not easy to get your product to the marketThat has always been true.