I believe the whole point is to optimize the synergy among your components & room to best connect you to the music and stir your soul.
Bingo!
A synergistic system that stirs the emotions is the ultimate goal. This can and often does result from very unusual combinations. You cannot simply throw money at the problem either. So when I see someone is using $1K speakers with $10K amplification, and vice versa, I no longer assume he/she is a noob.