people generally seem to be throwing a LOT of power at them. Am I missing something?
Yes: the logarithmic nature of power. 10 dB doesn't sound like much but its TEN TIMES the power.
Look at the spec- they are 87dB. You can let these guys blow smoke up your a$$ or you can save a ton of time trouble and $$ and cross them off your list.
Never buy speakers under 92dB. Just don't.