One factor in this debate I rarely see discussed is HOW folks listen to the music. Are they sitting still and focusing or busy doing other things? The way I listen is a solo endeavor - it's not really socially acceptable behavior I can share with friends present, i.e., I sit alone in the sweet spot with my head inclined toward the floor to get the best imaging.
Do I need psychoanalysis? Yikes!
Do I need psychoanalysis? Yikes!