The Shilabe is a very low compliance cartridge. The Triplanar is considered a "medium" mass tonearm, at 11g. Yes, your problem certainly could be due to a mismatch of very low compliance with a tonearm of inadequate effective mass. A cheap and dirty way to confirm that would be simply to add some weight at the headshell of the TP. A US nickel weighs 5g, I think. (But don't take my word for that; weigh it.) If adding 5g or even 10g on or near the headshell ameliorates the problem, you have your answer.