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Do You Ever Find Yourself Unable to Listen To Your System?

I was unsure how to pose this question.

I don't mean in a any technical capacity, as in, your system for some reason is not sounding good and therefore you can't stand to listen to it or some component is not functioning correctly.

I mean in the sense that your having some issues in life perhaps that is affecting you emotionally or mentally and you are unable to enjoy your system.

For me there is some personal issues that has been affecting me and my family for the past couple of years and there are times I just am not able to sit down and enjoy the rig.

For the past month I have been unable to bring myself to listen to anything. Heck, even hardly been on this forum.

I know different people deal with issue's in different ways. Some might completely immerse themselves in their system to forget about the world for a little bit.

I mean that would make sense. Music is not just enjoyable but therapeutic. 

I should actually be using my system even more in these type of times but I usually just seem to lose interest in things I like when I am a bit mentally disturbed due to some issue going on.

So I am just curious, do you any of completely turn away from your system or the opposite, immerse yourself even more?

Thnx

Jay
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marburger
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Yes, every year when school is out for summer vacation and my wife is home 24/7.
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jji666
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Hi Jay-

Yes, certainly, we have all been through periods like this or at least most people have.  I have also found that when I'm physically sick - flu, cold, strep - I do not want to listen to music and when I flip on the stereo habitually that is the sign that I'm feeling better.

In terms of mood affecting desire for music, I won't go into the deep advice some are providing - I do think much of it is good advice -- but I will stay a level shallower. I have found that it's not a bad time to look for some music that speaks to your current mood rather than to try to jam in your otherwise favorite genres into a mood where they don't fit.

In other words, if you are having trouble relaxing and experiencing a lot of anxiety, try Indian or Middle Eastern or North African music, or another kind of ambient-related genre. See if you can find something that speaks to you now.

Good luck and hope you are feeling better soon, and that your family issues work out!
pinthrift
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...no

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pinthrift
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Sorry, misc-audio...

That was flip as I didn't read your reasoning for the question.  I suspect how audio formed one's life provides some of the answer.  There was never a time when music wasn't a vital part of my upbringing and lifestyle.  Immediate family and cousins are/were musicians, some professional.  It's akin to breathing for me.  Decades ago, when I had my wife over for the first time, my furniture cushions were placed all over the corners of my sound room, testing.  "She may as well know me as I am."  Also, in this, our first and only house, I chose to select a remote, very difficult cube of a room for a dedicated studio, instead of the larger, more audio friendly family space.  It was the perfect solution for our family.  Moods drive my music selections, tempering my needs on the fly.  Working of my 50th year of sobriety, there, indeed, have been dark times, like most of us.  I suppose music is my drug of choice now, but generally, hangover free unless the Sweetspot Siren takes me deep into the night.    :)

Again, there are wonderful resources available for mental health.  I'm happy to report I've availed myself of them.  Best, Pin
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unreceivedogma
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The answer. is yes, it happens to me and in my case it’s a sure fire marker that clinical depression is setting in. 

I cannot tolerate the side effect profiles of antidepressants. The condition is usually concomitant with a lack of physical activity and I self-medicate by reducing the work schedule, getting on my bicycle and getting back to putting in a hundred miles per week.
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