Two things jumped out at me:
First:
Second:
You can over-deaden a room with too much acoustic treatment, but this is mostly with the midrange and high frequencies. It's very easy to put too much acoustic absorption into a room and this will definitely suck the life/excitement out of the room. But once again, this has to do with high frequencies.
If you look at the exact size of the room ( 26X14 with a 7 foot ceiling), Amroc shows a primary bass node right at 65 Hz:
https://amcoustics.com/tools/amroc?l=26&w=14&h=7&ft=true&r60=0.6
I have really bad bass nulls in my own room and the only thing that I found that really affected this was tuned membrane bass traps. If you want to treat the room that you are in, I would start stacking tuned membrane bass traps in the rear corners. GIK Acoustics makes their Scopus tuned membrane bass traps. They have a T70 that you can just buy online at $199, or you can call them and have them custom make a T65 (they will custom make for any frequency). The cost will not really be any different.
First:
Found that 65hz was nearly silentThis is clearly a bass NULL or bass node due to the size of your room.
Second:
The LDF drop ceiling and R19 is creating an enormous bass trap that is sucking the life out of the woofer.Bass traps do not work like this. Bass traps DO NOT suck the life out of the woofer.
You can over-deaden a room with too much acoustic treatment, but this is mostly with the midrange and high frequencies. It's very easy to put too much acoustic absorption into a room and this will definitely suck the life/excitement out of the room. But once again, this has to do with high frequencies.
If you look at the exact size of the room ( 26X14 with a 7 foot ceiling), Amroc shows a primary bass node right at 65 Hz:
https://amcoustics.com/tools/amroc?l=26&w=14&h=7&ft=true&r60=0.6
I have really bad bass nulls in my own room and the only thing that I found that really affected this was tuned membrane bass traps. If you want to treat the room that you are in, I would start stacking tuned membrane bass traps in the rear corners. GIK Acoustics makes their Scopus tuned membrane bass traps. They have a T70 that you can just buy online at $199, or you can call them and have them custom make a T65 (they will custom make for any frequency). The cost will not really be any different.