This should do just what you want:
https://6moons.com/audioreview_articles/passivepreamp2/
This is the review of the Icon4 PRO which allows you to use high and low pass filters for your mains and subs. The reviewer is a bit loquacious (wordy) but he had the same problem as you and found this to be the best solution.
Here is the site for Icon:
https://www.passivepreamp.com/
The Icon4 PRO is only mentioned at the bottom of the site as coming soon.
All the best,
Nonoise
https://6moons.com/audioreview_articles/passivepreamp2/
This is the review of the Icon4 PRO which allows you to use high and low pass filters for your mains and subs. The reviewer is a bit loquacious (wordy) but he had the same problem as you and found this to be the best solution.
Here is the site for Icon:
https://www.passivepreamp.com/
The Icon4 PRO is only mentioned at the bottom of the site as coming soon.
All the best,
Nonoise