On the left is warm romantic, on the right cool neutral?
Okay having studied your requirements the solution is obvious. Take a clean piece of paper. Draw a rectangle about 5" wide by 2" high. Label the left, "warm romantic". Label the right, "cool neutral". Take a crayon, color this blob yellow. This is your tube amp diagram.
Now we do the same for solid state amps. Let's use blue for solid state.
Now if you followed the instructions well you should be looking at a green rectangle. Smack in the middle draw a great big letter "S". Now divide the "S" by drawing a big ol' vertical line right through the middle.
This is where you will find your amp. The more of these $ you make the better the amp you will find.