Man! You really like to turn it up. Most people that come into my listening room where the 845PXs are located (otherwise known as "our living room") complain to me that I listen too loud. My sound labs probably go lower in the bass region than yours do without subwoofers, because of greater square area of radiating surface, but I do realize that with subwoofers you’re probably getting deeper base than I do. on the other hand I am hearing wonderful continuous bass down as low as I think there is any important music.
You once had an issue due to your room frequency response correction paraphernalia. Could it be that the same circuitry is boosting the bass in the problematic region, thereby either exacerbating the problem or actually causing it? Also, if the problem is caused by the Helmholtz Resonator mechanism, wouldn't you expect that shutting down the subwoofers and running the ESLs full range would not so much cure the problem (as you observed) but only reduce the intensity and clarity (because now the ESLs are straining to deal with the still present spurious LF input). The Atma-sphere amplifiers can certainly get down that low and lower. The Helmholtz hypothesis is happening at the turntable, so shutting down the subwoofs per se should not "cure" the problem. (By the way, if you are crossing over at 120Hz, I would call them "woofers", not subwoofers, but that's semantics. I think of a true subwoofer as a woofer that comes in at below 50-60Hz, to choose an arbitrary cut-off.) In my Beveridge system, I cross over to my home-made TL woofers at 80Hz, with an 18db/octave slope. Have you entertained the notion that the bass energy dumped into the room at high SPLs on bass-heavy passages is feeding back to the dust cover itself, maybe setting it into motion which affects the cartridge stability in the groove? As you know, bass frequencies are encoded largely by horizontal motion of the stylus/cantilever.