Terrible, no a few bouces should not bother it. I think atmasphere thinks you got another new cartridge and was thinking the bad sounding one was a previous cartridge and not the Grado. Ralph, he got the cartidge sounding better by finally getting the arm ajusted correctly.
Looking at a stylus to determine wear in not easy. It takes a special high powered (read very expensive) microscope and you have to know what you are looking for. Even the cheap usb microscopes we use for alignment purposes are not strong enough to detect moderate amounts of stylus wear. It is just the very extreme tip that wears. I can do it with a binocular medical microscope with special lighting but it is like looking at a CT scan, one slice at a time because the depth of field is very small.