Not sure that I agree with the notion that the way others describe what they hear influences MY perception of what I hear. Of course, if there is to be any kind of meaningful dialogue one has to try and interpret what someone else is trying to say. This is why I have always felt it would be extremely helpful on a forum such as this to somehow develop, limitations and all, a more consistent and meaningful “audiophile vocabulary”. As things stand, descriptive terms used are all over the place and often inappropriate and thus meaningless.
A few favorite (?) examples:
“Accurate”. Often intended to describe a sound that is lean and/or dry with emphasis on upper mids and highs. However, the word “accuracy”, by definition, suggests that for something to be accurate it can only be so compared to something else; and that something else is not necessarily something that is “lean and/or dry with emphasis on upper mids and highs”.
“Colored” - huh? Colored compared to what? The sounds of music are extremely colorful.
”Cold” - Somewhat like “accurate”, often meant to describe a sound that is top heavy and perhaps lean. I remember bringing a new amplifier home to try and my wife referred to the sound it caused my system to have as “cold”. Yet, the sound was not lean, nor too bright. What she meant, and I agreed, was that the sound was rhythmically dead; little sense of rhythmic aliveness, hence emotionally “cold”.
”Warm” - the opposite of the above in every sense.
Many more examples available.