I've learned to be alone when I just want to listen to music w/o interruption. Most people have never really sat quiet and just listen to the music. they use music as a secondary or background. And there is a time and place for it all. In the party 70's I generally kept the music going. i learned to suspend the turntable from the ceiling back then. Then too, it didn't weigh 135 lbs like my Teres does. Thats the beauty of suspended TT's. They are light enough to hang and I would still do that today if I had a suspended table.
BTW congrats on a nice system.and good story