I’m going off-topic because a couple of responders have mentioned having to constantly change the subwoofer level and I hope I can help.
My experience with this is that this happens when there are pronounced room modes which you have not dealt with. Peaks which certain music excites. Clip them and you can achieve a better sub balance and you no longer have to ride the subwoofer level.
Use the AM Acoustics room mode simulator to find those modes and move the subwoofer out of the hot zones.
https://amcoustics.com/tools/amroc
After this, EQ or EQ+Bass traps will deal with this nicely.
Of course, some one always replies "you can’t fix room modes with EQ" and you are wrong. You can’t fix nulls with EQ. Peaks however are dealt with easily, though the more you use placement and bass traps the more locations the solution works in.
Measure, clip the peaks and you’ll find that the sub level you normallly listen to is now way too low. Raise that up and boom.