I know that the performance of these two elements will be tightly coupled, so they need to match.
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assume that they have optimally paired their own components to work well together
Utter bleedin’ nonsense 😲
Other than face plate esthetics, it 100% irrelevant. Assuming the gear was actually listened to and didn’t go directly from design to shipping, any impressions are only valid on the test system & program.
Change source / load / interconnects and room / program and any matching is toast.
And what anyone else has is 200% irrelevant for the same reasons. Best advice is to ignore every "I have..."