Your scientific skepticism toward cables was justified, as few still understand them. First, electrons do not travel at light speed. While the EM wave travels at 50-80% c, after Feynman and applying the index of refraction for skin depth effect at frequency we find, for example at 20 Hz, the Vp, velocity of propagation, is 1.83 m/s. Therefore the wavelength is 0.30 ft, therefore cable length matters at AF. Secondly, what you are hearing with different cables is the result of matching impedances with amplifier circuits. To prove and measure this, watch the reflected pulse on an oscilloscope to prove this to yourself. Better yet a spectral analyzer to see the intense noise remaining on your cable. Cables are active places, while amplifiers are relatively quiet. These tools are far less expensive than a single audio component yet who has them.
Third, power cables have a different application. To be brief again, a very low inductance is desired, yet I have yet to see this parameter advertised. Secure connections with a high clamping force are essential. The bandwidth should also be wide because of the switching delay from the forward bias of the diodes, among several other factors.
Not enough time to address your several concerns. Also I don’t know how to respond to responses as I comment infrequently.