To close off this thread, my used 802 D2’s arrived, stunningly in actual mint condition. You can’t actually tell that they used. However, one tweeter failed to make a sound. The store luckily had a spare one (brand new!) and rushed it out to me. Installing it was easy.
I was stunned at how different these sounded from my old 803 D2’s considering that they use the identical midrange driver and tweeter. The mid and upper frequencies are crisper and more refined with the 802’s, and are more relaxed. At first I wasn’t sure as I thought maybe there was some “impact” that I’d miss in the upper ranges. In fact, there IS less impact with respect to heavy snare drums and in your face impact. The 803’s have more bass too.
BUT…. Going back to the 803’s they now sound thick and heavy handed. The 802’s are SO much more refined. After a week with them the bass is opening up but they won’t ever get to the levels of the 803’s. The bass however is more detailed and refined with the 802’s.
The 802’s are also easier to listen to in the background. With the 803’s, the more heavy handed delivery makes it more annoying to have on when you aren’t actively listening to them.
Detail, imaging and soundstage have just gone several levels up as expected with the 802’s. Very crisp, easy to listen to, and yet at the same time “big” sounding.
Best of all, the tons balance is spot on for my liking. This was unlike what I found with the 6-7 different high end speakers I tested. I consistently found them to have a harsh midrange with my Diablo 300, which is known to have the opposite of a harsh midrange. But with the 802 D2’s the balance is very, very easy to listen to.
I don’t know if a speaker I’d rather own, for my preferences.
I’m considering whether I want a pair of Rel subs to help support the low end in my very large room with high ceilings.. But the bass is opening up still (I just had dedicated 20A lines installed and I’m noticing a fuller sound as the new line is breaking in).