Looking for Speaker Recommendations

Listen to as many speakers as possible. I prefer silk dome tweeters - B&W, Focal and others can irritate my ears after long listening sessions. Devore Super Nines are speakers that really impressed me when hearing a Boulder integrated amp. 
 

The speakers will then help you determine options for power. I’ve owned and enjoyed McIntosh and there are equally impressive tub e (ARC) and solid state options (I like Moon). 

OP I would suggest that the Bryston/Focal combo is going to be as harsh as it gets.   I would change one thing at time, and see how you like the results.  Luxman or Accuphase integrated will get you the meters you like with far better results.  Luxman does have headphone jack also.  

As for speakers if I was looking for a 180 degree shift from Focal in a bigger brand I would look at SF and Wilson, maybe Magico if budget allows.  I would like to hear Harbeth in this scenario also.  

My two favorite affordable systems at AXPONA this year are highly recommended for the OP-

1) The new Luxman 507Z amplifier paired with Harbeth M30.2 XD speakers. Wow what a smooth luxurious high end sound !

2) For something with more snap the Audio Note system with Cobra integrated amp and AN-E D Hemp speakers was outstanding.

Why upgrade your speakers when you can upgrade your entire system (amp/streamer/speakers/speaker wires) with all in one speakers like the Kef LS60-

I would take a serious look at the Wilson SabrinaX.  I heard them at the dealer and they sounded amazing.  
 

There is a new in box pair advertised on US Audio Mart right now at a discount to list price.  Maybe you should check those out?