Delayed response...
First, the guy asked what selections do you play. Just list the songs you feel show your rigs capabilities and stop with the lack of "emotional connection"
I went through most of the posts and listened for songs that made my system come alive. That's the fun of the forum; to discover music and equipment that enhance your experience.
That said, while listening to recommendations, I came across this outstanding piece that will test the dynamics of your rig. Truly spectacular. Needless to say, I had an emotional connection!
Mazeppa, Act I: Gopak from Eiji Oue - Minnesota Orchestra - Album: Exotic Dances from the Opera
Others I like:
Man in a long black coat - Bob Dylan
Rider on the Storm - The Doors
Apoleipein - Metaz Descendez
Happiest Days > Another Brick 2 - Pink Floyd
Then they can play what they want!