I refuse to give up on the Luxman. I know it's not rational, but I've never owned a Luxman I didn't like. I run the 509X and the system (with new monitors) is coming along. Just assembled a Quadraspire SVT2 equipment stand this afternoon, placed everything on it and wham!! Not subtle. I mean wham!!
All of what you describe is missing......it's there. Just my experience. Your mileage may vary. Best wishes on your quest.