@hide45 Good summary. Hopefully the OP hasn't bougth or at least married to a tube amp yet. To me they should be bought as a pair, however, there is a lot of wiggle room in choosing both. For example, I recommend an SET. However, my current primary amp is not an SET, it just sounds like one (Decware ZMA). A lot of people like horns, I've never found them to suit my preference. I am currently listening to a very well designed pair of 4 way speakers with a high sensitivity, very flat frequency response, and excellent phase performance. Midrange to die for.
But in general my suggestion is less than 10 watts in an SET, and the best deisnged high sensitivity speakers you can find.
Jerry