not rubbing salt in the wound and hope you get it out soon. It shouldn't be hard to get out with proper tools. I haven't made any recommendations because I don't know your skill level and tool inventory.
I want to point out that these inferior multipiece banana plags significantly affect sound (negatively) and eventually fail. This is what drives people to lugs. I like BFA style banana plugs. One piece and great electrical connection (again, avoid the multipiece designs).
Jerry