This is the thing, I have run into many folk who are not that much into music, and as such their interest level in this hobby is minimal, at best.
Which couldn't be farther from truth for me. I got into hi-fi in 1960s when I was barely a teenager. I love music and aspire forever for perfection of its reproduction.
They like other aspects of sound reproduction, maybe they enjoy the technical aspect ( like the well known gear designer I referenced in a prior post, who hated music), or maybe they like the visual aspect of the gear, but the actual reproduction of music and the ability of the gear to get us as close to possible to what we hear as ’live’ is not something they truly value.
I don't know anyone like this. Every audiophile regardless of which camp they are in, share the love of music with interest in audio hardware.
It is my belief that you are a techie first, second and foremost...and that music really is not that high on your list, you just like the science. Maybe i am wrong about you, but to me ( as a musician and an a’phile), your ASR forum is one of the last places I would want to be, because the folk that seem to post there are absolutely into the tech side-- and really not the music.
Your belief is an insult and attempt at misdirection. The largest thread on ASR Forum is about music we enjoy:
https://www.audiosciencereview.com/forum/index.php?threads/what-are-we-listening-to-right-now.40/
It has *930* pages currently. It is linked to from the home page as a feature. When I went to Pacific Audio Fest last week, one of my top goals was to gather what music was being played and share it with the membership. Much new music was discovered and members went as far as creating playlists for them.
I assume you also like to listen music although I don't recall ever hearing you discuss that on either forums I have known for you.
What is different between us is that I am dedicated to understanding the technology that produces music. This is enabled by me having professional experience as both an engineering and trained listener for literally decades in audio. While you were perhaps spinning an LP, I was streaming music from cloud and reading research papers to advance my knowledge. You sit there and hypothesize what makes a difference in sound reproduction. I get to test literally thousands of pieces of new audio and get to talk to top luminaries in our field.
You talk about cables making a difference. I have tested a number of them and not just by measurements but performing null tests with music. The difference is nothing. Not a thing. The engineering says they shouldn't make a difference and they don't.
The fact that you hear a difference is because you are a human. I too hear such "differences." But just like your friend, I know that our hearing is variable and bi-directional. Our brain can instruct our hearing system to dig in deep in music, or not. Certainly when sitting back and enjoying music, you are not doing that. But when you compare things, you allow your brain to hear things differently in A vs B. When that happens, you think there is a difference even when there is none.
We can prove the above just like you friend said: take away your eyes and knowledge. But you didn't want to submit to that test, did you? Fact is that you don't want to know.
Mike Lavigne whom you know, swore that he could easily hear the difference between his MIT Oracle cable and another one. When tested blind against monster cable, he failed miserably to tell them apart.
"in my mind i am not confident that i will ever be able to hear reliable differences between the Monster and the Opus to pass a Blind test. OTOH i am also not sure i won't be able to do it.""
Take away his eyes and all of sudden his ears don't do what he said they do.
You walk around claiming that some knowledge of music creation helps you with magical powers when it comes to sound reproduction. That against incredible body of audio science and engineering, you know better. Well fine. Do the blind test with your friend and repeat 10 times and see if you can get 9 out of 10 right. If you are unwilling or can't pass the test, then please spare the insults that those of us who believe in audio science somehow don't enjoy music.
Really, I expected more from you. Much more.